Why I quit going to church

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Why I quit going to church

I was perusing my Facebook wall the other day when I came upon a blog post from a pastor I know.   The title of the article was "Why Attending Church No Longer Makes Sense."  I couldn't resist.  I had to click on it to see what he had to say.  He began by talking about the changes in our culture, the many activities that compete with Sunday morning worship attendance and a trend being experienced by many churches of members attending less frequently than they once did.  Then he got to the heart of the matter.  As followers of Christ, we are not really meant to attend church, we're meant to BE the church. 

Does that mean we shouldn't gather for worship on Sunday?   Actually just the opposite.  It means we should not only gather, but we should engage.  When we "attend" a ball game, a movie or a play, the implication is that we come, observe and enjoy.  When we come together on Sundays, it is not to attend church.  It is to be the church.  Here is the difference.

To be the church is to be a participant.  When we gather on Sundays, we are not coming just to observe.  We are coming to be a part of an experience.  We sing, we pray, we praise God together.  To be the church is to be relational.  I'm sure you have heard before that the church is not the building.  The church is the people.  It is the body of Christ, His followers brought together in community through shared relationship.  When we gather, we are community.  Being together allows us to build relationship. It allows us to listen to and care for one another.  It allows us to be the family of God to one another. That can only happen when we gather. 

Being the church also means combining our gifts and abilities with the gifts and abilities of others in order for the work of Christ to be done.  We are all gifted to serve.  Some of us certainly serve at times other than Sunday morning, but there are many for whom Sunday morning is their time to serve.  Among those are ushers, greeters, coffee makers and other hospitality staff.  There are worship leaders, praise team members, prayer team and tech staff.  Now add nursery workers, Nextgen leaders and adult life group leaders, and the list is still not complete.    

If you are planning on "attending" church this Sunday, I would ask you to begin thinking differently about that.  Let's all quit just going to church.  Instead, let's be the church.  Let's come prepared to engage ourselves in worship.  Let's come with a desire to serve where ever we can.  And let's come desiring to be true community.  Let's BE the church.

Also, I would ask you to keep our Honduras Mission team in prayer.  If you would like to see an update of how they are doing, please visit this blog post from Pastor Rachel and Jon. I look forward to seeing you all "be the church" as we gather this Sunday to continue our series on Biblical life hacks. 

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

 

Before I sign off I want to highlight a few important thing:

Men's retreat is coming up soon.  Get your registration in!

Men's retreat is coming up soon.  Get your registration in!

  • This Sunday immediately after worship at our Sandown location will be a brief meeting to talk about our nextgen ministry.  I hope all of you in Sandown will take a few minutes to stay and hear some of he exciting things that are coming.
  • Men.  If you haven't signed up for the retreat yet, I hope you will soon.  I believe God has an amazing weekend in store for us.  Click here to register.
  • Summer Day Camp.  If you haven't registered your kids yet, or if you would like to sign up to be a volunteer, you can do both at this link.
  • Soulfest.  We are nearly sold out of ticket.  Last I heard we had just a few left.  If you had hope to go, but have not yet registered, I would encourage you to do that immediately.  If you have registered but haven't paid yet, I would also encourage you to do that right away.  Otherwise, we may think you are not really coming and we will make your ticket available to someone on the waiting list.

 

 

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Childhood Heroes

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Childhood Heroes

In case you didn't hear, the Men's BBQ on Monday night was amazing.  Great turnout.  Great food.  Great weather.  But what was particularly exciting for me is that we got to hear from one of my childhood heroes; Rico Petrocelli.  As a kid I loved baseball.  I often watched, or listened to (on my transistor radio), the Red Sox play.  As I grew into my teenage years, I loved to watch Fred Lynn and Jim Rice.  But as a kid, it was all about Yaz and Rico!  They were my heroes.

But these weren't my only heroes.  There were others who were by no means famous, but nonetheless heroes to me.  They were people who shaped my early life.  People like Madge and Bill, George, Faith, Dan and Chris.  These were a few of my Sunday School teachers, youth group leaders, camp counselors and other adults who sowed seeds of faith in my life.  I am a pastor today because of adults who poured into my spiritual life as a child and a teen.

A lot of things have changed in the areas of children's and youth ministry since I was a kid.  Terminology has changed.  What we use to call Sunday School is now widely known as "NextGen" ministry.  Methodology has change.  Flannel graphs and filmstrip projectors have given way to ipads and video projection.  Culture has changed.  There was a time when the only thing to do on a Sunday morning was to go to Church and Sunday School.   When it comes to how we reach the next generation for Christ, much has changed.  But one thing that I am convinced has not changed is the potential impact that a loving and caring adult can have in the life of a child. 

Would you like to be a hero?  Consider getting involved in NextGen ministry.  As we look towards the fall, we intend to relaunch our Children's ministry at all campuses with a fresh look, a renewed passion and an expanded team.  We need heroes.  We need people who are willing to pour into the spiritual lives of our children.   We have some great folks who are already serving in this important way.  But we want to expand the team. 

If you think you might like to help or support this effort in any way, I would invite you to get connected.  To find out more, you can speak with any of our pastors, or our Nextgen site leaders (Lisa Post in Sandown, Glenda Maglio in Plaistow, Chrissy Rupp/Kate Moyer in Amesbury).  There will be an informational meeting for the Sandown campus on Sunday July 23 right after worship.

It seems to me that we are living in a time when the faith of our children and youth is being challenged and confronted more strongly than ever.  Our kids need caring adults who want to invest in their lives in a way that helps them to grow in faith in spite of the cultural challenges.  If you feel that God may be calling you to serve in this way, now is the time.  Speak to one of us.  Find a place to pitch in.  Be a hero!

We look forward to seeing you all this Sunday as we continue our series on Biblical life hacks. 

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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Exciting Times

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Exciting Times

These are exciting time at Rock Church.  We’ve just come off an incredible stretch of outreach events.  It began with Plaistow Old Home Day.  Then it flowed into nearly 2 weeks of special events during Amesbury days, culminating in our largest Pancakes in the Pines event in decades.  The very next day we were set up at Salisbury Beach with an outreach booth as a part of a summer concert series at the beach.  This past Friday in Sandown we organized a great outreach to families with a free movie night.  We are truly living out what it means to be For Our Community!

 

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But outreach is not the only exciting thing happening at Rock Church.  This month also marks some exciting new beginnings within our ministry.  In our denomination, new (P)astors “officially” begin their ministry appointment on July 1st.   We are excited to be dedicating two new Pastors to our ministry this July!  First, this Sunday July 9th at our 8:45 service in Sandown, we are welcoming Pastor Beth Soucise as our new Sandown campus Pastor.  The following Sunday July 16th at both the 9:45 and 11:11 services in Plaistow, we are excited to dedicate Pastor James Archibald as campus Pastor of our Plaistow location.  We are offsetting these events by a week because we know there are folks who will want to attend both.  God is so good and I continue to be in awe of the incredibly gifted people that He has called to be a part of our ministry.  I feel blessed beyond words to have the opportunity to serve with such an amazing group of believers, and am excited to welcome both Beth and James to our Pastoral Team.

This would be a good time for me to remind us of one our core convictions: Everyone is Gifted to Serve.  While each of us is gifted in different ways, and called to serve in different capacities, every gift matters.  We are only able to do the work God has called us to because so many of you have discovered your own gifts and callings, and have begun to live out that calling.  If you have not yet found your place to serve, contact any one of our Pastors.  We would love to help you get started.  Not only will your gifts be a blessing to the work of Christ, but you will discover joy in the act of serving.  There is nothing that compares to the sense of satisfaction that comes from discovering that place of service that enables us to make a real difference in the name of Christ.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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Summertime

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Summertime

I love the summertime.  I love the warm weather.  I love the extra hours of daylight.  Honestly, I don't even mind mowing my lawn!   Another thing I love about the summer is the opportunities we have for outreach.   I know a lot of churches virtually shut down for the summer.  But that is not at all the case for us.

When it comes to outreach, I think we are more active and engaged during the summer than in any other season.  For example, a few weeks ago, we participated in Plaistow's Old Home Day where we had the opportunity to connect with hundreds of people from Plaistow and he surrounding region.  Right now, we are right in the middle of Amesbury days. We've had amazing opportunities at both the Block Party and Kids Day in the Park to engage with unchurched folks as we lived out what it means to be "For Our Community."  We will have two more opportunites in the next few days with the fireworks and Pancakes in the Pines.  All of these are excellent outreach events.

Tonight (Friday June 30) we have a brand new outreach event taking place at our Sandown campus.  Beginning at 7:00 p.m. we are offering the first of several free movie nights.  Free movie, snacks, prize drawing and air conditioning!   We invite you to join us, and bring along an unchurched friend or neighboring family.  You can find details at familymovie.info. 

Later in the summer we will be once again offering our summer day camp.  You will be hearing more about that in the near future.  Registration is already open.  You can get all the details, and register your children on line at this link

Of course there is also Soulfest, Men's retreat, a group outing to a Fishercat's game and much more.  We also have a great summer teaching series that we have just begun entitled "Biblical Life Hacks."   This is an awesome series.  You won't want to miss a single week.  I know some of you are away on vacation this week.  If you can't be with us in person, I invite you to worship with us online at www.RockChurchAir.tv.

All of these special summer events are meant to be opportunities for community connection and invitation.  Invitation is the first step in helping someone come to know Jesus.  So let's make the most of these summer opportunities!

See you Sunday.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

One final invitation.  On Saturday July 8, Alex Arcisz and Neglest Vegas are being joined in marriage at our Rock Plaistow location at 2:00 p.m.  Because Neglest's family is all in Venezuela, we, the Rock Church, are really her family here.  As such, she asked me to extend the invitation to the whole church family to the wedding. 

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One Matters

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One Matters

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I have some exciting news to share.  Last week hundreds of pastors and laypeople representing approximately 600 Methodist Churches in New England gathered for our Annual Conference.  As the culminating act of the conference Rock Church Ministries was the recipient of the "One Matters" award.  This award is presented by the Discipleship Ministries of the United Methodist Church to a church in each conference that has excelled in baptisms and professions of faith!

Naturally, we don't do ministry for the sake of awards.  But I was excited about this because it represents the very heart of our ministry and our core convictions.  Our mission as a church is to reach and disciple people for Christ, and our first core conviction is that everyone needs Jesus.  And I believe the title of that award is true: One Matters.  Every single person who comes to know Jesus is a heart changed and a life transformed. 

So I want to take a moment to thank every one of you who invites, who serves, who welcomes, who shows love to the community around us in the name of Jesus.  By your efforts, the hope of Christ is transforming our communities, one life at at time.  I know it is not always easy, but what we do matters.  In fact, it matters eternally!

Speaking of exciting things, I want to give you a little sneak peak of our next series.  Beginning this Sunday we will launch a new teaching series entitled "Biblical Life Hacks."  It is going to be a great series.  You won't want to miss a single week.

Before I sign off, I also want to take a moment to celebrate Pastor Frank's ministry.  Over the past 20 years, Pastor Frank has had a tremendous impact on Rock Church.  From his incredible leadership in Men's Ministry to his key role in birthing our Plaistow Campus to leading us through the construction of our Sandown worship center, Pastor Frank has been instrumental in the growth of this ministry.  This past Sunday, Pastor Frank preached his last official sermon in his role as pastor of our Sandown campus.  I know I speak for all of us when I express my sincere gratitude for his faithful service over these many years. 

Have a blessed week.

Pastor Steve

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For Our Community

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For Our Community

We began a conversation this week that I think is incredibly important.  How does the world view Christians and the Church?   And how does that view of the church impact people's understanding of God?  How does that shape their perspective of Jesus?  Sadly, over the last several decades, it seems that people's view of Christianity has become less and less positive.

It seems that to a great extent, churches have become known more for what we are against than what we are for. But I don't think that is a true reflection of God.  I believe God truly is FOR us, all of us.  Think about that for a moment.  What does it mean to say that God is "FOR" us?  It means He loves us.  He is passionate about us.  He desires to be in relationship with us.  Other wise, why would he have sent his son to die in our place.  And I believe that as followers of Jesus, we ought to be FOR others.  We want those outside the church to know that we love and care about them, that we desire God's best for them, that we want to bless them. 

So I am calling us to begin a new initiative in which we intentionally seek to let our communities know that we are FOR them.  How do we do that?  What does that look like?  How do we get that message out?   What does it really mean to be "For Our Community."  This Sunday we will be talking more about that. 

One of the very simple, but highly visible, ways that we share that message is by being present at some of the community events to bless people.  This Saturday is Plaistow's Old Home Day.  As we have for a number of years, we will have a booth set up where we will give away bottles of water, freeze pops for the kids, donuts and other goodies.  Then on June 22 we kick off Amesbury Days with the Block Party.  Over nearly two weeks of Amesbury Days activities, we will have multiple opportunities to bless others in the name of Jesus.

Also coming up in Sandown on June 30th we will be offering a free Family movie night.  The goal here is simple, to bless families and individuals in our community with an enjoyable evening out at no cost.  The movie is free. The snacks are free.  The air conditioning is free!  This is another way that we can let people know that we are for them, that we want to bless them. Each time we do this kind of event, it is an opportunity to break through some of the preconceived notions that some people have about the church.  These are also opportunities to build relationship with people who do not yet know Jesus.  Over time, these relationship become an opportunity to share the Good News of Christ. After all, everyone needs Jesus!

I know you will not want to miss this Sunday as we continue this important conversation of what it means to be "For Our Community." 

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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Amazing!

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Amazing!

I'm so excited I almost don't know where to begin.  God is doing AMAZING things in and through our ministry.   The Spirit of God is moving and we are seeing the fruit of that bursting forth all around us.  For example, this Sunday as we celebrated Pentecost we welcomed the largest class of new members our church has ever seen.  We welcomed 46 new members of three locations and five services!   How awesome is that? By the way, if you had wanted to accept membership, but was not able to do so on Pentecost, please let on our our pastors know.

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We also did immersion baptisms as a part of a regular Sunday morning service for the first time ever, with 6 people choosing to be baptized.  If you were not able to be in Amesbury to see those in person, we will soon have available a video to share some of that experience with the other campuses.  There is nothing more powerful or exciting than to see a person's life transformed by a relationship with Jesus Christ.  In baptism we celebrate that transformation and new life!

Our mission team is getting ready for another trip to Honduras where they will be working directly with the kids, doing construction work to make facilities improvements and they will be giving away tons of food to some of the poorest of the poor.  They are raising some funds for building materials and for food.  If you would like to make a donation towards that work, you do so right on line at this link.

Speaking of mission, we have our 2nd annual golf tournament coming up on Saturday June 24th.  This is a great, enjoyable fund raising event.  The proceeds from the event go to support missions at several levels.  It's "best ball" so even I can play.  So even if you are not a great golfer, come on out, have some fun and support a great cause.  For more information or to register, go to this link.

We have some great community outreach opportunities coming up in the next few weeks.  Next Saturday is the Plaistow Old Home Day celebration.  We will be participating in that at several levels as a way of reaching out to not-yet-churched folks in our community.  The following week is the start of Amesbury days.  We will be participating in the Block Party, Kids day in the Park, the Pancake Breakfast and the fireworks.  This will take lots of help.  If you would be interested in serving at any of these events, please speak with Pastor Jon or Pastor Rachel.

As we think about these outreach events, I just want to take a moment to remind us why we do these.  One of our core convictions is that everyone needs Jesus.  In the communities that surround our churches, there are literally thousands of people who do not have a relationship with Jesus.  These outreach events provide us with an opportunity to connect to some who do know know Him and help them take a first step towards faith. 

This Sunday we will be starting a two week mini-series entitled "We Are FOR!"   In this series we are addressing a significant challenge and concern for the Church.  I believe it is going to be the start of something BIG!  You will not want to miss it.  I look forward to having you worship with us this Sunday.

God Bless,

 Steve

 

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Pentecost

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Pentecost

I can't begin to tell you how excited I am about this weekend.  On Sunday we will celebrate Pentecost.  This is a big day in the life of the church.  In fact, I put it right up there with Christmas and Easter.  This is the day we celebrate the coming of the Holy Spirit and the birthday of the Christian church. 

We will mark this day with great, spirit filled worship.  We will celebrate holy communion.  We will welcome new members at all 5 of our services this weekend.  And at our Amesbury location, we will even celebrate baptism by immersion right in the sanctuary!   These are going to be amazing services and I know you are going to want to be a part of. 

If you are not entirely familiar with the Pentecost story, I would encourage you to take a few minutes to read the account in Acts Chapter 2.  There you will read the story of what happened the day God's Holy Spirit was poured out on the disciples and those who gathered to hear them.  But it is actually in Chapter 1 that Jesus begins to prepare them for what they will experience.

"Do not leave Jerusalem, but wait for the gift my Father promised"  Acts 1:4

The Holy Spirit is described in many ways in the Bible: a comforter, a guide, a help, a healer and much more.  In Acts 1:4 Jesus describes the coming of the Holy Spirit as a "gift."   Sometimes I'm not sure we recognize that.  There is a song we sing in worship from time to time entitled "Good, Good Father."   He is a good Father, and we are told in Matthews 7:11 that he is a father who gives good gifts. 

In the Holy Spirit, God has given us a great gift.  It is the gift of His presence with us.  It is the gift of His strength when we are weak, His direction when we feel lost, His healing when we are broken and His wisdom when we need insight.  This Sunday we will celebrate the coming of the Holy Spirit!  I look forward to seeing you all as we celebrate this great gift. 

God bless,

Pastor Steve

 

PS.  I would invite you to wear red on Sunday.  It is the color of Pentecost to represent the tongues of fire that descended on the disciples when the Holy Spirit came.

 

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Next Gen

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Next Gen

I have to be honest, I didn't make this up, but I kind of like it.  I've noticed that many churches have begun using the phrase Next Gen to combine what we have often called Children's Ministry and Youth (or Student) ministry.  As you probably figured out, Next Gen is an abbreviated form of "Next Generation Ministry."   I like it for a couple of reasons.  It ties together children's and youth ministry in a way that helps us think more holistically.  But it also reminds us what is at stake.

What is really at stake is the matter of where the church will be in a generation.  In fact, at the risk of sounding dramatic, the question really is, will there be a next generation of Christ followers here in the US?  I'm not an alarmist, but I think we would be naive to not recognize that there are forces at work in our world that would desire to lead this next generation away from Christ.  There are those who are investing significant time, energy and resources in an intentional effort to marginalize Christianity and ultimately remove it's influence from our culture.  And they are wise enough to know that the battle will be won or lost with our children.

This past Sunday we celebrated Children's Day at our Sandown and Plaistow campuses (Amesbury will do the same in a couple of weeks).  If you were there, you know it was awesome.  It was fun and engaging.  The kids felt loved and appreciated. The whole day set the tone that kids matter here.

Going forward, I believe we must act on that ideal, 'kids matter here'.  I believe we must invest even more of our time, energy and resources into raising up a generation of young people who know, love and serve Jesus.  We already have a great team working with our kids and I am grateful for every one of them, but they need our support.  I would ask each of you to look for ways to support, encourage and serve along side our Next Gen leaders and our young people.  I implore you to lift them up in prayer every day.  Most of all, each of us needs to be listening for the whisper of God and His directing to where we are gifted to serve.  

Our Next Gen Leaders attending a training event together.

Our Next Gen Leaders attending a training event together.

Even though the school year is winding down, we are already beginning to prepare for special summer outreach events and for an expanded fall program.  If you can help in any way, please feel free to contact any of our Next Gen site leaders: Lisa Post in Sandown, Glenda Maglio in Plaistow or Chrissy Rupp in Amesbury.  I believe God has exciting things in store for us in our Next Gen ministry.  It's going to be great!

In Christ,

Pastor Steve

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START

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START

Last Sunday we talked about one of the "Big Three" for our church, Serving.  We have three core convictions for our ministry: Everyone needs Jesus.  Everyone is meant to grow.  Everyone is gifted to serve.  I used the image of a puzzle.  Each piece is unique and each piece is necessary for the puzzle to be complete.  When we find our place of service we contribute our unique gifts, talents and abilities to the work of Christ through His church.

But it is not only that when we share in this way it helps to advance the kingdom of God.  It also helps us to more fully connect to the family of God.  What's more, there is a tremendous joy and satisfaction that comes from discovering, and living into, the purpose for which God made us.  My hope is that everyone of us will find a way to employ our gifts and talents in meaningful service. So I will repeat the offer I made on Sunday.  If you are not yet serving in some area of ministry, but are ready to START, then take the first step.  You can email me directly at steve@rock-church.org and just say "I'm ready to START!"  I would be honored to help direct you to a place that fits your calling.

I also want to take a moment today to remind us about some very exciting things coming up for us at Rock Church Ministries.

Brian and Chris cooking at last year's Blessing of the Bikes

Brian and Chris cooking at last year's Blessing of the Bikes

  • Blessing of the Bikes!   That event takes place tomorrow (Saturday) at our Sandown campus.  Gathering and continental breakfast at 9 am., blessing at 10 am, group ride and BBQ back at the church at lunch time.
  • Membership class.  If you are not yet a member of our church, there will be an inquiry class Sunday (May 21) at 2 pm at our Plaistow campus. If you would like to attend, please drop a quick email to Lynette.
  • Golf Tournament. Our Rock Church Golf Tournament to support missions is coming up on June 24.  Registration is open now.  We are also looking for hole sponsors.  If you, or your business, would like to sponsor a hole, please email Julie at japalladi@yahoo.com.
  • Baptisms.  We are going to try something we have never done.  On Pentecost, June 4th, we will incorporate full immersion baptisms into a Sunday morning service.   For this first time, we are going to be doing this at our Amesbury campus during the 10:10 Sunday service.  If God is calling you to a deeper walk through baptized, please email Pastor Jon at Jon@rock-church.org.

This is just a sampling of some of the great and exciting things we have going on at Rock Church Ministries.  Be sure to read through the newsletter and catch all the rest.  I look forward to having you join us this Sunday at one of our morning or evening services. If you are out of town, we invite you to join us at our online campus www.RockChurchAir.tv.

Have a great week and God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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Exciting Times!

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Exciting Times!

Pastor Paul and Lisa Nolden

Pastor Paul and Lisa Nolden

Something exciting is coming.  Some of you may recall that the launch of our Newburyport campus got delayed a bit due to a transition of leadership.  But I am excited to announce that Pastor Paul Nolden is now officially on board and ready to rock and roll!  Paul has more than two decades of ministry experience, including a successful church plant in the Chicago area.  He is a gifted leader and communicator, and I couldn't be more thrilled that God has sent him our way.

The first step will be to build a core team, drawing on people from our existing congregation.  We will begin with 3 informational meetings to discuss the vision for the ministry as well as get input from those interested in helping us launch.  These informational meetings will be on June 8 and 15 and July 20 at 6:30 p.m. until 8:00 p.m., and will be hosted at The Rock Church Amesbury Campus.

Following the informational meetings, we will begin meeting weekly on Thursday evenings beginning August 10 with a meal served from 5:45 until 6:30 (come when you can) and then the Life Group from 6:30-8:00.  If you think you might be interested or are just curious you can contact Pastor Paul at 815.303.5446 or paul@rock-church.org (or catch him Sunday mornings in Amesbury).  I believe God is preparing to do something amazing in this Newburyport campus!  I would ask us all to keep Paul and his wife Lisa in your prayers as they help us launch this new location.

Speaking of exciting things, I also wanted to celebrate what amazing successes our Spring Concerts were.  We packed the house full for both concerts and had hundreds of unchurched guests come and hear of the good news of Jesus through the gift of music.  I want to take a moment to thank everyone involved.  I want to thank Beth Soucise for her extraordinary leadership and the entire choir for their commitment and dedication. But I also want to thank some of those unseen heroes.  Our hospitality team did an amazing job managing a very full house while making every person feel welcomed.  Our audio, video, lighting and computer techs provided great support behind the scenes.  Then there were all those who set up, broke down and provided support in a dozen different ways.   Most importantly, I want to thank those who stepped out of their comfort zone to invite an unchurched person to experience the love and hope of Jesus Christ   We are a congregation full of people with true servant hearts, and I am grateful for everyone of you!

I look forward to seeing you this Sunday as we continue our series "One Heart and Mind."

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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All in the Family

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All in the Family

What does it really mean to describe the church as the family of God?   Recently we began a new teaching series "One Heart and Mind" where we are exploring that very question.  The church is not intended to be a collection of individuals who all happen to gather in a certain space once a week to worship God.  The church is community.  It is a gathering of people who seek to share life together.  And it is a community of people who come together to pursue a common mission and vision.

Blessing of the Bikes coming up on May 20

Blessing of the Bikes coming up on May 20

This past Sunday we talked a bit about what that mission is and how that common vision binds us together.  There is actually something very powerful about a shared vision.  When hundreds of people, gathered in a particular geographic area, are all headed towards the same goal, the potential impact is amazing.

In our church, the vision is to reach and disciple people for Christ.  The illustration we used in worship was that of sowing and nurturing seeds. We sow seeds of faith as we share Jesus with others, and we nurture those seeds as we help people grow in faith.  As we grow increasingly unified around that vision, not only is our family bond strengthened, but our impact is multiplied.

I know we are a pretty big family, but we ARE family.  And that family connection is strengthened by our shared desire to see Jesus be lifted up in our communities and our region.  One opportunity we have this weekend to lift up Jesus and begin to sow some seeds is our Spring Concert.   I would ask you to do three things in regards to our concert.  First, plan to attend one of the performances (Saturday at 7:00 p.m. or Sunday at 5:00 p.m.).  Second, invite a guest to attend with you.  A concert like this is a fairly non-threatening entry point for someone who doesn't necessarily attend church.  Third, pray for the concert.  Pray that guests would come and pray that the Holy Spirit would so anoint this concert that the words and the music would draw people towards Jesus.

I look forward to seeing you this weekend as we continue our series "One Heart and MInd."  This is a great and important series.  I know you won't want to miss a single week.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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The Next Generation

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The Next Generation

Sunday was an interesting day.  At our Sandown campus I had the opportunity to baptize a child whose mom grew up as a child in our church.  There is always something special about seeing the next generation begin a journey of faith.  But when it is the child of someone you helped raise in the faith from their childhood, that is particularly cool!

A short time later, at our Plaistow campus, our choir shared an anthem.  I know I'm biased, but I think we have the best choir in New England.  But what was especially moving to me was to see a young man, Colby, singing the solo part.  Colby also leads our Rock@6 praise team.  To see a new generation of musicians and worship leaders raised up in our church is awesome!

At the same time, at our Amesbury campus we have a host of young adults serving and providing leadership for this rapidly growing part of the Rock congregation.  From hospitality to worship team to trustees, the next generation is being raised up in ministry, and they are doing an awesome job.

Then at the Rock@6 service, our Sunday night service in Plaistow, we consecrated Dan Elliott as the campus pastor for that service.   As I mentioned last week, Dan has completed his CLM training, has been approved by the District Committee on Ministry and is now ready to service in a pastoral capacity.  Dan also grew up in our church.  Again we see the next generation responding to God's call to serve.

As I reflected on all of this, I suppose it could have made me feel old.  But that is not at all what I felt.  Instead I felt encouraged, and I felt proud of our church, that we are a place that invests in the next generation.  I'm grateful that at the Rock we are a congregation making a priority of pouring into the lives of young people and giving them the opportunity to grow and serve.

I believe the church, at its best, is meant to be a place where all generations can work together to advance our mission and vision.  We need to be constantly raising up the next generation.  But to be fully effective, those of us a little further along in the journey also need to bring wisdom and experience to the work.  Additionally, we need to be mentoring the next generation as it is raised up to serve and lead. 

That won't always be easy.  With new generations come new ideas and approaches that will inevitably require some measure of change.  But when we see the next generation raising their children in faith, finding ways to serve and responding to God's call to ministry, it is all worth it. 

I can't wait for this Sunday as we continue our series "One Heart and Mind."

God Bless,

 Pastor Steve

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New Frontiers

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New Frontiers

I got to hang out with the Youth Group at our Sandown this week.  What an awesome group of youth people.  Love them!

I got to hang out with the Youth Group at our Sandown this week.  What an awesome group of youth people.  Love them!

"See, I am doing a new thing!  Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?"   That was God's message to the people of Israel, spoken through the prophet Isaiah.   Even though those words were recorded about 2700 years ago, I feel like God is speaking them to us today.  Right here in Rock Church Ministries God is moving in new and powerful ways, and it is exciting!

Just this past weekend as we celebrated Easter over our three campuses we hit an all time high for Sunday morning worship services.  We had almost 1000 people in total attendance.  By our best count (not everyone fills out connection cards so it is hard to be exact) we had over 20 first time guests and over a dozen people prayed to invite Jesus into their lives.  In light of our core conviction that everyone needs Jesus, THAT IS EXCITING NEWS!

Speaking of new things, I have two other pieces of exciting news to share with you.  The first is that Dan Elliott has completed his training and District Committee on Ministry evaluation to be approved as a CLM (Certified Lay Minister).  Dan has already been providing leadership for the team that leads the Rock@6 Sunday evening service.  This approval as CLM will allow him to officially serve as the campus pastor for that service.  This Sunday evening at 6, as a part of our Rock@6 service, we will be consecrating Dan for that role.  We invite everyone to join us in celebrating this important step for Dan and for our church.

The Pancake Breakfast and Egg Hunt in Amesbury raised over $250 for the Amesbury PTO and blessed many families with the Good News of Jesus.

The Pancake Breakfast and Egg Hunt in Amesbury raised over $250 for the Amesbury PTO and blessed many families with the Good News of Jesus.

I also have news to share regarding Newburyport.  You may recall that a number of months ago we were asked by the Annual Conference to partner in the launching of a new ministry in Newburyport under the leadership of David Kemper.  Unfortunately, around the start of the year David shared with us that he was going to have to step back from leading that work. 

Without David to lead that new campus, but still convinced that God has called us to reach out to the hurting people in the Newburyport area, we pushed the pause button as we began the search for a new pastor.  Around that same time, Paul Nolden and his wife Lisa began worshiping with us at our Amesbury campus.  Paul is an ordained United Methodist Pastor who had recently relocated to the north-east after serving a number of years in the Chicago area.  Paul is a very gifted pastor who, among other things, has experience as a successful church planter.  Paul’s timely arrival was a God thing and I'm excited to announce that after a time of prayer and discernment Paul has agreed to head up our new campus in Newburyport.  The work will begin with building a core team and one or more lifegroups in Newburyport, but we will not be launching Sunday morning worship there immediately.  So Paul and Lisa will continue to participate in Amesbury as they develop a core group for Newburyport.

New Series begins this week at all campuses!

New Series begins this week at all campuses!

Please keep both Dan and Paul in your prayers as they launch out in new and exciting ways as leaders in our ministry.  God is doing new and exciting things at the Rock!  I looking forward to seeing you all this Sunday as we launch into a new series, 1 Heart and Mind.  I promise this is going to be such an awesome series you will not want to miss a single week.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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My Easter Invitation

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My Easter Invitation

I did it!   I actually invited an unchurched person to Easter worship.  There is a mixed blessing in being a pastor.  On the one hand, we have the gift and joy of being able to work day in and day our with wonderful, amazing brothers and sisters in Christ.  Much of what I do involves interacting with people who already know Jesus.  The challenging aspect of that is I seem to have fewer opportunities than many people to engage those who do not yet know Jesus. 

Mark your calendar for this great workshop.  This is open to our church as well as our communities.  Feel free to invite a friend.

Mark your calendar for this great workshop.  This is open to our church as well as our communities.  Feel free to invite a friend.

But I know I am not alone in that.  In my experience, the longer any of us are part of a great church family, the more that becomes our social circle.  It is great to have good friends who share our beliefs and values, with whom we can do life.  But if we are not careful we may wake up one day and realize that we have no unchurched friends.

I came to the conclusion a number of years ago that if I was going to ever have the opportunity to share Jesus with people who do not yet know him, I would have to intentionally develop some new relationships.

I will confess to you that as an introvert this is not easy for me.  I have always envied those people who seem to be able to comfortably initiate conversations wherever they go in a way that just draws people in.  It's not a natural gift for me, but because I love people and want to see everyone come to know Jesus, I'm determined to develop relationships outside of my church circle.

Is anyone with me?  Does anyone else struggle with this?  One of the ways I try to develop these relationship is by what I might call marketplace outreach.  In other words, I try to use the same garage, shop at the same stores, eat at the same restaurants in a way that opens the opportunity to build relationships. 

This brings me to my invitation.  While eating at a restaurant we often frequent, being served by the person whose section we always sit in, I asked the question. "So, what are you doing for Easter?"  She shared a bit of her plans, which lead to us sharing our plans, which of course included Easter worship. At that point it seemed like the most natural thing to say was "Why don't you join us for Easter worship.  I think you would really enjoy it."

I was excited, and a little surprised, when she replied "That would be great.  I would really love to do that."  So we told her the times of services and where we are located.  As we were leaving, I wrote the times and address on a piece of paper for her. The whole experience reinforced for me that it is not as hard as it sometimes seems (even to an introvert) to extend an invitation. 

I don't know for sure that she will come on Easter, but I do know that we have opened a door.  Even if it is not this Sunday, I believe that one day she will attend worship.  When she does, she will be warmly greeted, she will experience engaging worship and she will hear the Gospel.  I believe that one day soon, the angels in Heaven will rejoice over her as she opens her heart to Jesus. 

Have you invited anyone for Easter yet?  There is still time.  Don't forget we have our Maundy Thursday service at our Sandown campus at 6:30 p.m.  Good Friday service is at our Amesbury Campus at 7:00 p.m.  And if you are not able to make Easter worship on Sunday morning, we are also offering a full Easter worship on Saturday at 5:00 p.m at our Plaistow Campus.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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The Big Week!

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The Big Week!

This Sunday marks the beginning of our "Big Week."   This Sunday, Palm Sunday, marks the beginning of what Christians call "Holy Week."  For Christ followers, Holy Week is our Superbowl.  It's our World Series, our Stanley Cup, our Final Four!  Actually, as much attention as the Superbowl and World Series get, they pale in comparison to the importance of Holy Week.

Holy Week observes and celebrates the events of the final week of Jesus' life.  From His procession into Jerusalem, to the cross, to the miracle of his resurrection, this was the week that changed the world.  The sacrifice of the cross and the glory of the empty tomb took our world from despair to hope.  It brought us from sorrow to joy, from broken to healed, from dead to alive. 

Holy Week is a big week for us for two reasons.  For ourselves, it is an opportunity to walk with Jesus on His journey to the cross.  In many ways, it is like a roller coaster ride.  It begins with this great high as everyone comes out to celebrate Him on Palm Sunday.  But in a few short days comes the rapid descent into the last supper, the betrayal, the arrest and the crucifixion.

On Thursday we will have a special service at our Sandown campus at 6:30 p.m. to observe the last supper and the events in the Garden.  On Good Friday we will have a service at our Amesbury campus at 7:00 p.m. to remember Christ's sacrifice at the Cross.

Then, of course, on Easter weekend we will celebrate his resurrection.  We will have services at all of our regular Sunday morning times.  But we will also offer a Saturday evening service at our Plaistow campus at 5:00 p.m.  This is particularly great for those who may be traveling on Easter Sunday but still want to be able to celebrate Easter with your church family at the Rock. 

I said this is a big week for us for two reasons.  First, for ourselves to celebrate the week that changed our lives.  But secondly, it is one of our best opportunities to live out one of our core values as a church.  We believe "Everyone Needs Jesus."  Easter is the perfect time to invite an unchurched friend to worship with us. Let's make the most of this opportunity.

I hope you will be able to join us throughout Holy Week as we journey towards the celebration of the most important event in the history of the world, the resurrection of Jesus.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

 

Mark your calendars.  Invite your Friends.  This is going to be a great event.

Mark your calendars.  Invite your Friends.  This is going to be a great event.

 

 

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Love God. Love Others.  Do Good

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Love God. Love Others. Do Good

During my time with God this morning I was reading in Paul's letter to the Galatians.  In chapter 6, verses 9 and 10, Paul writes these words.

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

Weary.   Synonyms: tired, worn out, exhausted, fatigued.  Do you ever feel weary?  I have to be honest, I'm growing weary of winter.  We all grow weary sometimes.  But Paul's encouragement is that we not grow weary of doing good, helping others, being a blessing.   

I've come to believe that one of the greatest and most effective forms of outreach that we have as Christ followers is simply to "do good."  When we express kindness and generosity, when we help another human being expecting nothing in return, it allows others to see and experience the love of Christ through us. 

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Paul says "as we have opportunity let us do good."  I want to encourage us to always be on the watch for opportunities.  I believe God provides opportunities for us to love other and to do good every day.  But we have to be living with eyes wide open, seeking and responding to those opportunities. 

Paul also says in this verse that we are to do good to all people, especially those who belong to the family of God.  I think this is another important reminder.  We certainly want to show love to those outside the church.  But we must also be intentional in loving and caring for one another.

One of the places we see this happen in our church is through lifegroups.  I'm in a weekly lifegroup.  In our lifegroup we study God's word, we pray, we grow.  But we also care for one another.  There is a level of caring that takes place on Sundays around worship.  But when we gather as lifegroups, we have the opportunity to really know what is going on in people's lives.  It is in lifegroups that we support, encourage and help one another. If you are not already in a lifegroup, I would encourage you to get connected here.  Not only is it a great way to grow in faith, but it is a place to love and be loved.

I'm proud of our church.  I believe we love well.  I've watched people from our church family, in the name of Christ, serve others sacrificially, help people in need, bless the world and one another.  My prayer is that we look for every opportunity to love Jesus by loving and serving others.  And I pray that we never grow weary of loving God, loving others and doing good.

In Christ,

Pastor Steve

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The Power of Invitation

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The Power of Invitation

It's funny how you remember certain things.  I remember the first time I went to youth group.  I think I was in the 5th grade.  Our church had recently gotten a new pastor, Faith Chandler.  We didn't have a youth group, but she was determined to start one. 

I was pretty shy as a kid, and I probably wouldn't have gone.  I wanted to go.  But I really didn't know who else was going or if I would know anyone else.  It sounded like fun.  But I wasn't sure what to expect.  Ultimately I did go, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life.  It was at youth group over the next several years that I begin to genuinely connect to Jesus and grow in my faith.  A few years into my youth group experience, at the age of 15, I felt the call to ministry.

So, why did I go to youth group that first time?  Because someone invited me, and I knew there would be at least one other person I knew.  I want to remind us that there is power in invitation.  As a church, we do all kinds of outreach activities.  We advertise in the paper, put up posters, place lawn signs and hang banners.  We even promote on social media.  And all of those things have value.  But far and away the most effective tool we have for reaching the unchurched is still personal invitation.

I realize that sometimes we will invite people and they will not come.  But sometimes they will.  And for those who accept the invitation the results can be life changing.  When people have the opportunity to hear and respond to the good news of Jesus, it not only changes their life in the here and now, it changes their eternity. 

While none of us are likely to bat a thousand when it comes to people's response to our invitation, there are some things that can help to increase our averages. 

  • Invite them to something specific.  i.e. Come with me to this concert, join me for worship this Sunday, bring the kids to our Easter Egg hunt on this day.
  • Invite then to come WITH you.  Offer to pick them up.  Tell them you will meet them at the front door.  Maybe even invite them to breakfast before or after.
  • Give them something as a reminder.  We often provide invitation cards that you can hand to people.  All the basic information they need to know is included on it.  People don't always remember details.  With the card in hand they have the address, the time of the service/event and the church website.  It gives them something they can put on their fridge as a reminder.
  • Make the most of high potential times.  There are certain times when people are likely to be more open to an invitation.  For example, Christmas and Easter are times people are more likely to be open to an invitation to worship.
  • Pray.  Pray for the people that you would like to invite.  Ask God to begin to prepare their heart to receive the invitation.   

With Easter soon to be upon us, I would ask you to begin praying for a few of your friends, coworkers, neighbors or family members who do not yet have an active relationship with Jesus Christ.  Ask God to begin to open their heart to an invitation.  Pray for opportunities to extend an invitation.  And pray that God would give you the boldness to seize those opportunities as they come.   Your invitation could change someone's eternity.  Remember, Everyone Needs Jesus!

I hope you can join us this weekend as we continue what has been a great series from the Book of James "Real World." 

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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Together

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Together

As I was traveling north on I-93 yesterday I saw something inspiring.  As I came up over a rise, I saw a fleet of identical power line service trucks.  With the bends in the road, I could only see so far.  But from my vantage point, I could count at least 20 trucks before the line disappeared from view.  Unfortunately I was coming up on my exit, because what I really wanted to do was pull into the passing lane and slowly work my way up the convoy.

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Not only did I want to see just how far the line stretched, but I really wanted to drive along side of each truck, give a quick wave and a thank you.  I could tell from the lettering on the trucks and the license plates that these hard working linemen and women had come down from Quebec.   I didn't know their stories, but I had to imagine that they had left home several days earlier to help restore power during and after the storm.  I suspect many of them had left behind family and friends, traveled a decent distance and had worked under harsh conditions to serve us.

As I pulled off my exit and the trucks disappeared into the distance, I couldn't help but think of our church.  We have an unbelievable team of people who work sacrificially for the sake of the kingdom of God.  I know that many of you sacrifice time, effort and precious resources to make the ministry of our church possible.  I just want to say today that I am truly grateful.  I am grateful for the gifts, time and talents that so many of you share.  And I am grateful to be a part of such an amazing church family.

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I have no doubt that restoring power after a storm like we had this week is a mammoth task.  But when workers pull together, sometimes from far and wide, it is amazing what can be accomplished.  God has called us to a great work.  To bring the love of Christ to the world, to seek to serve so many in need, to share the hope of the gospel with so many that do know know Him, is a mammoth task.

But together as the body of Christ, with the power of the Holy Spirit within us, we can do great things.  And everyone one of us is an important part of that work.  Thank you for all you do!  I hope to see you all this Sunday as we continue to dig into the Book of James in our series "Real World."  

Also, with Easter soon to be upon us, I would like to ask us to be praying about who we might be able to invite to join us.

God Bless,

Pastor Steve

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Everyone Needs Jesus

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Everyone Needs Jesus

Friends,

     I would like to share an experience I had this week that reinforced for me all the more the importance of our mission to share Jesus with those who do not know him.  Early in the week I had a voicemail left on my phone from a woman asking me if I could pray with her husband.  I didn't know the couple.  She apparently got my number from the Billy Graham association.

     According to the voice message, her husband wanted someone to pray with him to give his life to Jesus.  Needless to say, with eternity in the balance for this man, I did not hesitate to return the call.  We were able to find a time that worked in their schedule and mine, and we met.  I invite the man to share a little bit of his story. 

     Without getting into the details, this man had faced some significant struggles in his life. He desperately wanted and needed healing for the many hurts of the past.  He needed help and strength for some of the struggles he was currently experiencing.  He needed Jesus. 

     The interesting thing was, he had religion.  He had grown up in a Christian tradition.  He knew the rules and regulations of his religious upbringing.  He knew some scripture.  He felt the weight of conviction for his sins.  He feared he could not truly be forgiven.

     So we talked for a while.  We talked about the unconditional love of God.  I shared my heartbreak over some of hurts he had experienced (sadly, much of it in the name of religion).  I reinforced for him that our salvation comes by faith alone, and not by our works.  I explained the difference between religion and a relationship with Jesus.  Then we prayed together. 

      In those sacred moments, he opened his heart and invited Jesus to be the Lord and Savior of his life.  He confessed his sin, received the forgiven of Christ and genuinely experienced the grace of God.  We talked about next steps.  I gave him a Bible. 

      As they left, his countenance had changed.  He came in broken.  He left healed.  He came in shackle, he left free.  He came in defeated and discouraged.  He left victorious and hopeful in Christ. 

     The church exists for many purposes.  But I am more convinced than ever that we are called, as Jesus said "to seek and to save the lost."  We live in a world full of broken people, desperately seeking help, hope and healing.  I believe the only real hope for this world is found in Christ.  As his followers, we have been entrusted with sharing the life changing, world changing, gospel of Jesus Christ.

     Everyone needs Jesus.  My prayer for all of us is that God would continue to open doors of opportunity for us to share the hope of Christ with others.  And that we would have the courage to seize those opportunities when they come, that many more would know the freedom and forgiveness that come from a relationship with Jesus.

     Have a blessed week.  I hope you can all join us for worship at one of our campuses this Sunday.

     In Christ,

Pastor Steve

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